Yes Im alive!!!

I have been so busy that I haven't really had time to blog...I also have been thinking about deleting my blog???? not sure anyway we went on a small vacation Monica got a solo in her  program at school JaySea learned how to tie her shoes I'm sure I could have taught her this sooner but she only ever wheres shoes that don't tie...(when she wares them)

I will be in Oklahoma on Christmas I cant wait I miss everyone so much I have sent invites to my friends on facebook but I'm going to eat at Teds so who ever wants to join me please feel free the date and time is December 28th @ 7:00 please just let me know so I know who all is coming. Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!!!

LOVING MY LIFE!!!

sometimes life goes by so fast I forget to take in the small things in life....but when I set back and think about it all I'm so very very blessed.... Jay has a temporary position at his job this news came at a bad time for us I had just cut my hours at work and it also meant that he would be making less. however we know it is only temporary. and will return to the other way come the first of the year. Monica is loving school this year!! (Thank You Lord)!!! she is making A's and B's (has one d in math 68.??) this school is really really hard or maybe it is just school these days. but she is doing math that I did in high school. Edmond is one of the best school districts in Oklahoma but the school we are at here in Florida Is in the top 3 in the whole state of Florida I read somewhere the other day that Edmond is talking about getting Smart boards this school has had them for 3 years. I'm not trying to brag on the school I'm just in shock how far behind Oklahoma seams to be in the education area!!! Anyway JaySea is reading and writing I'm amazed at how fast this takes off once it is started!!! they also tested her speech and she is going to start speech tomorrow she will go 2 times a week for 15min each time so just some advice if you think your children missaying words is cute don't encourage it.... or they will want to put them in speech when they go to school!! My work is going good I do love my job even more so since I'm only working part time!!! I work Tuesday - Friday I'm off everyday by 2:30 it is great. since I have moved to Florida I have lost 20 lbs!! but my pants don't fit any better!! I want to lose another 30 hopefully!! My in laws are coming out here next week then we are taking a Cruise to the Bahamas so excited. I'm so ready to come to Oklahoma to see everyone when I come in December it will have been a year....how much of this is repeated? remember we have plenty of room so if you come to Florida please let us know we would love to see you!!!

12 years ago

As some of you that read my blog know on October 5th 1998 my home was broken into and I was Raped I have wrote it about it in detail here http://onealfamilynews.blogspot.com/2009/01/my-hope-in-celebrate-recovery.html (not sure i did that right). anyway yesterday was the 12 year anniversary of this happening and 4 years since he had been sentanced to 195 years in jail!! Amen!! Since this has happend to me I have wanted to do something to get rape awareness in to the public and education system I have just not know how to do this I have sent emails to speakers of the house news chanels goverment officials and have just not ever figured out how to do it!! today I was playing on the internet and oprah was on in the back ground this lady was on the show here is her blog I have sent her a message hopefully she will respond to me!!!http://erinmerryn.hcibooks.com/

Rebecka gets a bob friday

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over a month in 100 words or less

yeah right I don't think I could do less than 100 words if I wanted to....

1- right before Monica's birthday I found head lice in her hair.....i would not wish this on my worst friend....this is a very very hard thing to get rid of.. step on bag or wash everything in your house vacuum all floors spray all beds and chairs treat children's hair when you have 2 kids with more hair than a adult who whine every time you touch it this is a problem....the only place the kids had been to pick up this was DISNEY that's right folks DISNEY Monica is always putting on hats to see how they look.... Or MICKEY EARS as in this case don't do it do you know how many people put those on their heads and don't buy them...

2 school started....Monica loves 5th grade how ever we had some trouble at the first of the year with I forgot my home work oh I didn't bring that book home after 2 days of doing nothing but laying in her bed reading the bible ( her dads idea because as he put it when he killed her he wanted to make sure she knew Jesus). and some money incentive she has been remembering everything she is supposed to the way this works is they are both giving 5 dollars at the beginning of the week if they forget their homework books or a paper that needs to be signed or lie about their work they pay me a dollar at the end of the week the money they have left is theirs to keep. JaySea is loving kindergarten she is very happy that she gets to go this year.

3 i started a new schedule at work I'm working M-F on Monday i work from 10-6 and on Tuesday I work from 10-2:30 on wen I work 10-1:30 (we have early release every Wen) Thur and Friday I work 10-2:30. and I only work one Saturday a month to take care of my clients that cant get in during the week. I love this I'm home with the girls everyday but Monday.

4 yesterday I got a call from the school telling me that I had to come pick up my kids because once again my kids have head lice.... this time I have no idea where they came from Monica did say last week that 3 kids had been sent home with it and being that i work at a kids shop i had heard that it was in our neighborhood and the neighborhood by ours, our school only is zoned for these two neighborhoods...which means it is in the school I know that I have done everything to get rid of it we did go to the doctor to day to get the RX cause I'm tired of spending money on over the counter stuff...but I can tell we have gotten rid of it but rest assured they will be getting at least two more treatments my kids had never had this before and I pray that they never get it again!!! we are having JaySeas birthday party tomorrow more on that next time if you have any ideas on how to get rid of head lice for good please let me know!!!!! at this point I'm about to cut all their hair in to buzz cuts!!

TEN things I Love about this GIRL!!

I cant believe that my baby turns Ten (tomorrow)!!
it seams like yesterday I walking waddling around with her in my tummy!! I thought I would Honor her birthday with TEN things I love about her!! not in order just by thought!!

10) THE FACT SHE GOT HER DADDIES BLUE EYES
9) THE FACT SHE IS SO OUT GOING
8)THAT SHE LOVES HER SISTERMOST DAYS
7)THAT SHE IS ALWAYS SINGING
6)THAT SHE REALLY LOVES EVERYONE WITH ALL HER HEART
5)HER CRAZY THICK SEMI CURLY HAIR
4)SHE DOESN'T LET HER HAND DIFFERENCE GET IN HER WAY.SHE THINKS YOUR THE WEIRD ONE BECAUSE YOU HAVE 10 FINGERS AND NOT 9
3)HER GOOD HEART
2)HER ABILITY TO ALWAYS MAKE YOU LAUGH
1)HER SILLY PERSONALITYHER DADDY WOULD SAY SHE GETS THIS FROM HIM BUT IT IS CLEARLY ME!

THE POINT IS I'M TRULY BLESSED TO BE HER MOTHER AND I HOPE THAT I CAN BE THE BEST MOTHER FOR HER AND TEACH HER ALL THE THINGS TO BE A GREAT MOTHER WIFE AND CHILD OF GOD!!

THE WHOLE MONTH OF JULY!!!

took a great trip with this guy!!

at this amazing resort!!

spent lots of time here with lots of these!!

enjoyed sunsets on the beach!!

danced the night away with people who where just as crazy as me hey it was vacation we were their to have fun!!

went 6 whole days with out one of these babies!! and spent $2.80 when I found one!!

got a cute new hat and talked my husband into wearing this crazy hair do!!

used my under water camera to take photos of cute fishies!!

welcomed my children back home man i missed them.

played with our cousins at the beach!!

was happy to be home

played with my underwater camera with my kids

did i mention that i missed them?

took this self haircut

and turned it in to this

and officially became a floridan!!!!!

AFV Presidential Material

COOL NEW TOY!!! AND RANDOM STUFF!!!

so a few weeks ago we were at disney blizzard beach and this girl had her camera in the wave pool... Jay thought she just didnt know that the wave was so big...so I went over and was talking to her about it after the wave had passed turns out that it is waterproof so I thought thats cool I want one for the beach and the water park so it came in the mail today....my kids are not home for me to try it out on them so I just had to play with it in the sink...

JaySea cut her hair today my mom says its not that bad this scares me cause my mom would say that so i wouldnt freak out!! and I leave in three days to go here...

Last Month

shark I caught fishing on the peir!!!

me on my birthday!!!

monicas bass she caught fishing with her grandpa at the pond by our house.

My mom at the North Carolina sign.

Me and My Dads Brother and Sister their is 2 other sisters but one had already left and the other was in ICU. hopefully she will be better next time!!

the fish JaySea caught at the pond!!!

we have had alot going on and with alot of family in town... here are some photos of everything that has been going on... in 9 days im going to Mexico with my hubby cant wait!!!

a little of this and a little of that

Jays and My Neice came to visit and we did some fun stuff we took her to disney for her first time...well she had been to disneyland just not disney world. we also took a trip to dc. we had a great time and even went to the beach one day. my mom and dad are coming to town for my birthday in just a few days. Im taking my mom to North Carolina to see my step dads family because the only time that my mom has met them was at my dads funeral. and I have only met them one other time however since living in Florida I have reconected with them on facebook. My new step dad is also from Augusta Ga and we will also travel up to see his family. work has been going a little better but is offten stressful at time. Some days I want to quit and stay home with my children. When my mom goes back to oklahoma she is taking the girls with her they will be their for 4 weeks. Im not sure what i will do with my self with out them. I know that they will have fun and be in good hands but still what will I do. JaySea has dropped out of pre-k and I let it happen everyday has been a fight with her she hates to go which makes me wonder what goes on their because she has always loved school and has never been a problem. but the other day I told her you have to so that you can graduate and she told me " MOM IAM NOT WEARING THAT DRESS OR THAT STUPID HAT" well thats just great i paid 30 dollars for that stupid dress and hat!! here are some photos of our trip.

confessions of a mother

this will more than likely be rambling...but here it goes.. If I showed up at your house with out calling what would your home look like? Most of the time our home looks as if a bomb has gone off. not that it is nasty dirty it is just not as clean as say someone who has ocd... I clean the house on my day off which is on Mondays the rest of the week the house is just picked at. on Mondays I vacuum dust clean bathrooms sweep and mop. do all the laundry and put it away. the rest of the week I get up get everyone ready for work school we leave we come home i make dinner (sometimes) then the kids go to bed Jay and I watch a movie. during the week I do load the dishwasher and run it ( their is not always a lot of dishes depending on what we have eatin) we use paper plates and bowls! ALOT. and the trash is picked up but I dont do laundry or any of the real house cleaning things!! so what do you do everyday for house cleaning?


the other thing I wanted to get off of my chest is about my niece... She is 18 and is getting married tomorrow I cant go into alot of detail about this as some of you know my mother in law and  my family reads my blog. I just wish their was something to do about this I know that she is 18 and know body can tell her what to do but I know that this is not the right thing to do she is marrying a 19 year old boy who doesnt even have a job i dont think she has a ring im just upset about this and am asking for prayers for her and him and Divine intervention.

3rd and one a happier note I had a great mothers day...we are still looking for a church home but we got up this morning and went to a church here that I think we can both agree on.. they have a great children's ministry celebrate Recovery, they serve Communion and believe in baptism it is not the one i talked about before Jay didn't like that one.. but he liked this one http://www.ccontheweb.com/ if you want to check it out. then we went to TGI FRIDAYS for lunch and have I mentioned how much I LOVE LOVE LOVE  the Jack Daniels sauce that they put on their rips and steak? IT IS THE BEST... then we came home and I had a mothers day nap after my nap we went to the pool. then when the girls where about to go to bed they brought me a package from VICTORIA SECRET....it is a kind that I wanted for awhile but I still had some so I was waiting until i was out of it. now i have worn this kind for years all most 9.

Yesterday when I came in from work I asked JaySea if they had gotten me anything for mothers day she said "Yes we went to the bra store and got you some perfume" I know that is cheating but I hate not knowing and Jay always tells me he didnt get me anything. I had looked in the van and didnt see anything so I believed him so I had to ask the informant the new kind is called little sexy things and I love it!! hope you all had a great mothers day!!

Mom photo or in this case Jay's Grandma

SHE IS SO FUN she knows a lot she is a GREAT cook. I cant tell you how old she is or I will be killed!! if you need to know how to cook quilt or sew shes your gal. And if your looking if away to scare off pirates she will be their for you. head over to mandys page to leave your photo of your mom or grandma  http://mandysphotoblog.blogspot.com/

Random thoughts thursday

This is the crap I caught when we went fishing off of the peir with Jays Grandma I was the only on who caught anything and the girls where upset we were not going to bring it home and cook it!!

IS IT SUMMER YET always around this time of year i start getting ready for my kids to be out of school... i don't know why however my kids have to go until June the 9th....speaking of June the 9th a few days before that I will have a birthday it seams just like yesterday I turned 30 now I'm already going to be 31 yikes!! Also this month marks ONE year since we left Oklahoma....WOW does it feel like that long to you guys? I feel like we just got here their is still so much to see and do. We went last weekend up to Fernandina beach to the shrimp festival it was okay i don't eat shrimp so I was not as excited as Jay and the Girls were. I still HAVE NOT been to the beach since it warmed back up the kids and Jay have but I have not that is not okay that is why I moved here!!! On Tuesday our niece is coming she will be here for 10 days!!! while she is here we are taking her to DISNEY i don't think she has ever been I will have to go this time :( which is okay i just need to find some Valium... J/K. we are also going to take a trip up to Washington DC. that should be fun. Then the first of June my mom and Step-Dad are driving out. The plan is for them to bring Monica and JaySea Back to  Oklahoma with them for 3 weeks...YIKES I don't know if I can make it that long with out my girls. but I know that they will be in good hands. I'm not sure how I'm going to get them back from that trip... I may just have the in laws meet me half way with them that's only a 9 hour drive like that then we can stay the night in a hotel room and come home the next day. AM ready to come to visit everyone I just don't think i can work it out with my Job for this summer so it will more than likely be Christmas before Jay or I come to Oklahoma... but if any of you are coming out this way you are more than welcome to stay with Jay and I. or we can come down to Disney to see you. just let us know. well I guess Ill go make dinner oh yeah pray for JaySea she is sick she keeps getting this thing they tell me is allergies and this time they said she has a sinus infection because of her allergies so just pray that they are giving her the right treatment and that she heals quickly...one more Random thought I would like to take some photography classes does anyone know where one might do that????

24 Days since my last post

The girls had a great time in Oklahoma... I did miss them a little but The easter bunny got to wait untill the day after Easter to bring their things here so everything was on clearance WHOOT WHOOT!!! while Jays sister was here the girls had a great time we went to see a comedian (Ralphie Mae) very funny guy... then we went deep sea fishing we had a blast I want to go again with a different company and hopefully have better luck.. someone on the boat did get a shark that they didnt want so they gave it to us it wasnt very big. but I dont eat Seafood BUT I LOVE SHARK... it is the best fish you will ever eat so we came home and ate all the fish we had caught... I ALSO FOUND A CR PROGRAM!!! I think I can be happy with and make it too they have cr on Tuesday and they are 5 min from my work so if Jay can get the girls on this day of the week i can go.. Also this church may be the church we start going to they are not COC....but they are called a christian church they take the lords supper everyweek and teach that you have to be baptized...the only differance that i see is that they do have music Ill keep you posted iam going their tomorrow..here are somephotos from the fishing trip...the photos are not that good cause they are off of the website but thats them...